Post by Admin on Jun 3, 2013 15:03:02 GMT -5
First, The Basic Tips.
You have to be an independent person.
What I mean by this is that you will not be able to juggle more than one SD if you have to constantly “check in” with someone or have set rules. For example, if you have overbearing parents/family/friends that will question you on where you go and who you’re with - Chances are you’ll have a hard time explaining why you disappear so often. I know it’s hard for ladies with a boyfriend/fiance/husband/etc to deal with ONE sugar daddy. It’s going to be a whole lot more difficult when there’s more than one. So don’t set yourself up for future problems. Make sure you’re independent and don’t have to report to anyone. If you do, I think it’d be more realistic to just try to find one sugar daddy.
Keep a planner.
In order for you to have more than one SD, you need to be able to be an organized planner. Never get into that terrible situation where you promised to see more than one SD on a single day. Never let those dates clash. You need to have a mental calendar with you at all times. So if Florida decides to book me a ticket to visit him, I need to make sure that I didn’t make plans with CEO or Southern first. When it comes to sugaring, you need to always be on time and cancel as little as possible. It’s like being in good standings at a job.
Second, in order to have more than one SD - You need to find the right sugar daddies.
Attempt to have multiple SDs AFTER you’ve secured the first sugar arrangement.
It’s easier that way. Make sure you have established one very good and strong sugar relationship before you seek another person. What happened for me was that CEO became my SD first. Then 2 weeks later, Southern became another official SD. And it wasn’t until a month later did Florida become my SD. I think that gradual approach is better to work out.
Non-clingy sugar daddies are the best.
You will not be able to have more than one SD if you have someone who is contacting you 24/7. I personally do not like clingy men when it comes to relationships so I feel the same way when it comes to sugaring. If you want more than one SD, do not be with an SD who wants to know what you’re doing, where you are, who you’re with at every second.
Find sugar daddies that cannot see you often.
Having 3 SDs works for me because Southern only sees me one day a month. I visit Florida one weekend out of the month. And I see CEO about 3-4 days a month. So technically I’m only sugaring 8 days out of 30 days. This is why I can manage more than one SD and being a full time student. Find the men that want to see you a few times a month. You will not be able to successfully manage more than one SD if they want to see you 1-2 times a week.
Your best bets are:
Sugar daddies who live far from you.
Sugar daddies that travel often.
Sugar daddies who work a lot.
None of these kinds of SDs will expect to see you more often than their schedules permit them to see you. This works in your favor. So look for those kinds of men!
Lastly, and the most important part of maintaining multiple sugar daddies is - Make each of your sugar daddies feel special.
Be genuine about your feelings.
I remember seeing someone say that they would have a hard time “faking it” with multiple SDs. Well, it works for me because I’m not faking anything. I truly do care about my SDs. I genuinely enjoy being around them and spending my time with them. And yes, it is possible to strongly care about more than one person. And your SDs will recognize it if you are always genuine.
Keep in contact with them.
When you score a SD, you need to learn how they communicate. Each person is different. For example, CEO and Southern are often busy with work so they prefer to email. So once a week, I always send an email saying that I hope they are doing well. Florida and I have a long-distance arrangement so we enjoy talking to each other on the phone every night. Consistent communication is how you keep these sugar arrangements from ending.
When you’re with them, it’s only about them.
Put your phone on silent. Turn off your text message alerts. When you’re with your SD, you should be truly invested in your time with them. Making each of your sugar daddies feel special when you’re with them will pay off tremendously
You have to be an independent person.
What I mean by this is that you will not be able to juggle more than one SD if you have to constantly “check in” with someone or have set rules. For example, if you have overbearing parents/family/friends that will question you on where you go and who you’re with - Chances are you’ll have a hard time explaining why you disappear so often. I know it’s hard for ladies with a boyfriend/fiance/husband/etc to deal with ONE sugar daddy. It’s going to be a whole lot more difficult when there’s more than one. So don’t set yourself up for future problems. Make sure you’re independent and don’t have to report to anyone. If you do, I think it’d be more realistic to just try to find one sugar daddy.
Keep a planner.
In order for you to have more than one SD, you need to be able to be an organized planner. Never get into that terrible situation where you promised to see more than one SD on a single day. Never let those dates clash. You need to have a mental calendar with you at all times. So if Florida decides to book me a ticket to visit him, I need to make sure that I didn’t make plans with CEO or Southern first. When it comes to sugaring, you need to always be on time and cancel as little as possible. It’s like being in good standings at a job.
Second, in order to have more than one SD - You need to find the right sugar daddies.
Attempt to have multiple SDs AFTER you’ve secured the first sugar arrangement.
It’s easier that way. Make sure you have established one very good and strong sugar relationship before you seek another person. What happened for me was that CEO became my SD first. Then 2 weeks later, Southern became another official SD. And it wasn’t until a month later did Florida become my SD. I think that gradual approach is better to work out.
Non-clingy sugar daddies are the best.
You will not be able to have more than one SD if you have someone who is contacting you 24/7. I personally do not like clingy men when it comes to relationships so I feel the same way when it comes to sugaring. If you want more than one SD, do not be with an SD who wants to know what you’re doing, where you are, who you’re with at every second.
Find sugar daddies that cannot see you often.
Having 3 SDs works for me because Southern only sees me one day a month. I visit Florida one weekend out of the month. And I see CEO about 3-4 days a month. So technically I’m only sugaring 8 days out of 30 days. This is why I can manage more than one SD and being a full time student. Find the men that want to see you a few times a month. You will not be able to successfully manage more than one SD if they want to see you 1-2 times a week.
Your best bets are:
Sugar daddies who live far from you.
Sugar daddies that travel often.
Sugar daddies who work a lot.
None of these kinds of SDs will expect to see you more often than their schedules permit them to see you. This works in your favor. So look for those kinds of men!
Lastly, and the most important part of maintaining multiple sugar daddies is - Make each of your sugar daddies feel special.
Be genuine about your feelings.
I remember seeing someone say that they would have a hard time “faking it” with multiple SDs. Well, it works for me because I’m not faking anything. I truly do care about my SDs. I genuinely enjoy being around them and spending my time with them. And yes, it is possible to strongly care about more than one person. And your SDs will recognize it if you are always genuine.
Keep in contact with them.
When you score a SD, you need to learn how they communicate. Each person is different. For example, CEO and Southern are often busy with work so they prefer to email. So once a week, I always send an email saying that I hope they are doing well. Florida and I have a long-distance arrangement so we enjoy talking to each other on the phone every night. Consistent communication is how you keep these sugar arrangements from ending.
When you’re with them, it’s only about them.
Put your phone on silent. Turn off your text message alerts. When you’re with your SD, you should be truly invested in your time with them. Making each of your sugar daddies feel special when you’re with them will pay off tremendously
