Post by Admin on Jun 3, 2013 15:00:01 GMT -5
-There should always be a set ballpark allowance discussed before meeting: Whatever site you’re using you should always have at least a ball park figure (I use SA the most) and having a set amount is always great keeps the time wasters(most of the time) at bay and the real sugars comin your way( yes, I just rhymed, I dgaf I’m a child). This also shows men you know what you want which in my experience is sexy.
-Explain why you need the allowance you want: It can’t just be for shopping….Well I guess it can but good luck with finding a guy who is cool with that! I think the best way to explain is saying most of it is going into school(even if you don’t go to school) and savings for business/investments(you should honestly be doing this anyway, I’m judging you if you’re not) . Young ambitious girls will always be put ahead of bimbos (sorry bimbos). Also explaining your bills and expenses that you’d like to be covered is great as well. I’ve set it in a really recent post that you should always talk to these men when it comes to their money like its an investment/business plan. The other parts of the relationship should be and feel non-transactional this part in the beginning totally should be business! So you never have to talk about it again, unless your needs/wants change and you need an increase.
-Let him know you can start off slow: I’m not a huge fan of pay per meet, but in the beginning I can see how that would be useful seeing as both of you have to garner a trust with one another. But another way that seems efficient and keeps everyone happy is a payroll system for example getting half on the first of the month and getting your other half at the end or on the 15th or something like that. If he’s fine with just starting off the bat with a monthly allowance don’t even argue with him the man knows what he’s talking about!
-Keep the rest of your arrangement being (or feeling like) a real relationship: Don’t make it blatantly obvious you’re manipulating these men for their money. Please at least pretend to care(but if you really do care that’s even better!). I mean shit they have feels too! All they want is some attention because clearly they don’t get enough. Don’t be a spoiled, ungrateful little bitch. They don’t owe you anything and their will be some other girl who will do everything and more and do it with a fucking smile, for cheap. So please be super appreciative and sweet. This is sugar after all.
-Explain why you need the allowance you want: It can’t just be for shopping….Well I guess it can but good luck with finding a guy who is cool with that! I think the best way to explain is saying most of it is going into school(even if you don’t go to school) and savings for business/investments(you should honestly be doing this anyway, I’m judging you if you’re not) . Young ambitious girls will always be put ahead of bimbos (sorry bimbos). Also explaining your bills and expenses that you’d like to be covered is great as well. I’ve set it in a really recent post that you should always talk to these men when it comes to their money like its an investment/business plan. The other parts of the relationship should be and feel non-transactional this part in the beginning totally should be business! So you never have to talk about it again, unless your needs/wants change and you need an increase.
-Let him know you can start off slow: I’m not a huge fan of pay per meet, but in the beginning I can see how that would be useful seeing as both of you have to garner a trust with one another. But another way that seems efficient and keeps everyone happy is a payroll system for example getting half on the first of the month and getting your other half at the end or on the 15th or something like that. If he’s fine with just starting off the bat with a monthly allowance don’t even argue with him the man knows what he’s talking about!
-Keep the rest of your arrangement being (or feeling like) a real relationship: Don’t make it blatantly obvious you’re manipulating these men for their money. Please at least pretend to care(but if you really do care that’s even better!). I mean shit they have feels too! All they want is some attention because clearly they don’t get enough. Don’t be a spoiled, ungrateful little bitch. They don’t owe you anything and their will be some other girl who will do everything and more and do it with a fucking smile, for cheap. So please be super appreciative and sweet. This is sugar after all.