Post by Admin on May 31, 2013 23:40:35 GMT -5
These are some of my ultimate tips for being so irresistible that no man will ever be able to say no to you. Please add more to the list, I’d love to learn some new tricks!
1. Keep your skin silky soft
- I love exfoliating with olive oil and sugar! I’m especially careful with keeping my hands soft, since touching his rough hands with your perfectly smooth, well-manicured fingers is mesmerizing for any man. Remember to keep hand cream with you at all times, and maybe even some body butter in a small container if your skin gets really dry. It’s also great to use sugar and olive oil on your lips!
2. Smile!
- This one is obvious, but it’s worth bringing up! I always keep a smile on my face, no matter the situation. My SD Curious actually brags about my smile sometimes! It might also be a good idea to whiten your teeth.
3. Stay secret and keep the mystery
- Never give out every detail about your life all at once. Keeping him on his toes wanting to hear more is key. A good idea is to never let him see you putting on makeup. That way he’ll keep believing that you roll out of the bed looking all put together and with perfectly applied lipstick. I have eyelash extensions that gives me long, black, curly lashes all day every day. I truly recommend them for everyone who’s not blessed with full lashed by nature. It’s so convenient, I never do my makeup in everyday situations any more. You’ll never smudge your mascara as well! If you’re at his house, always have the water running while you’re in the bathroom. This might be a little TMI, but I’ve found that if you lean forward like a crazy person while you’re sitting down doing your business, actually takes away the splashing sound.
4. Always smell like a freshly picked flower
- Invest in two signature perfumes: one daytime and one for the nights. Make sure you ALWAYS put on deodorant, even at night. If you wear it at night, it apparently reduces the amount of sweat in the future. Keeping body mists around the house is great, too, since you can just spritz some on whenever you feel like you need a pick-me-up!
5. Say Thank You!
- Probably the most important think you can ever learn. Even if it’s your SD opening the car door for you, telling your waiter thanks for serving your wine or receiving a new purse it’s really important to be gracious! Being kind is part of your magical allure, and while you don’t want to be a pushover it’s still very important to not take everything for granted. Just because you have boobs and a vagina doesn’t mean you automatically should have everything you point at! You have to prove your worth of these things and be grateful for them in order to keep it coming. Sure, you do deserve the world, but it never hurt to be kind and give a little kiss on the cheek as a token of your gratitude.
6. Act like a Lady - think like a Boss!
- This is what I live by! It goes hand in hand with #5, but is extremely important! You must always act like a lady, with impeccable manners and knowledge on how to read people. Meanwhile, you must never ever let yourself be fooled into stupidity! Don’t be coy, know what you want and never settle for anything less. Simply put, don’t give up and don’t be rude.
7. Know what your role as a SB is
- You are not a girlfriend. You’re not a wife. You are a mystical creature that gives him a break from real life. Don’t blow up his phone. Don’t call him every day. Give him space, let him come to you. Not saying that you should never contact him, but be sure not to overdo it. He will get tired of it and that will be that. You have a busy life(and if you don’t, like me, then fake it!) and he is a privileged man who is a part of it!
1. Keep your skin silky soft
- I love exfoliating with olive oil and sugar! I’m especially careful with keeping my hands soft, since touching his rough hands with your perfectly smooth, well-manicured fingers is mesmerizing for any man. Remember to keep hand cream with you at all times, and maybe even some body butter in a small container if your skin gets really dry. It’s also great to use sugar and olive oil on your lips!
2. Smile!
- This one is obvious, but it’s worth bringing up! I always keep a smile on my face, no matter the situation. My SD Curious actually brags about my smile sometimes! It might also be a good idea to whiten your teeth.
3. Stay secret and keep the mystery
- Never give out every detail about your life all at once. Keeping him on his toes wanting to hear more is key. A good idea is to never let him see you putting on makeup. That way he’ll keep believing that you roll out of the bed looking all put together and with perfectly applied lipstick. I have eyelash extensions that gives me long, black, curly lashes all day every day. I truly recommend them for everyone who’s not blessed with full lashed by nature. It’s so convenient, I never do my makeup in everyday situations any more. You’ll never smudge your mascara as well! If you’re at his house, always have the water running while you’re in the bathroom. This might be a little TMI, but I’ve found that if you lean forward like a crazy person while you’re sitting down doing your business, actually takes away the splashing sound.
4. Always smell like a freshly picked flower
- Invest in two signature perfumes: one daytime and one for the nights. Make sure you ALWAYS put on deodorant, even at night. If you wear it at night, it apparently reduces the amount of sweat in the future. Keeping body mists around the house is great, too, since you can just spritz some on whenever you feel like you need a pick-me-up!
5. Say Thank You!
- Probably the most important think you can ever learn. Even if it’s your SD opening the car door for you, telling your waiter thanks for serving your wine or receiving a new purse it’s really important to be gracious! Being kind is part of your magical allure, and while you don’t want to be a pushover it’s still very important to not take everything for granted. Just because you have boobs and a vagina doesn’t mean you automatically should have everything you point at! You have to prove your worth of these things and be grateful for them in order to keep it coming. Sure, you do deserve the world, but it never hurt to be kind and give a little kiss on the cheek as a token of your gratitude.
6. Act like a Lady - think like a Boss!
- This is what I live by! It goes hand in hand with #5, but is extremely important! You must always act like a lady, with impeccable manners and knowledge on how to read people. Meanwhile, you must never ever let yourself be fooled into stupidity! Don’t be coy, know what you want and never settle for anything less. Simply put, don’t give up and don’t be rude.
7. Know what your role as a SB is
- You are not a girlfriend. You’re not a wife. You are a mystical creature that gives him a break from real life. Don’t blow up his phone. Don’t call him every day. Give him space, let him come to you. Not saying that you should never contact him, but be sure not to overdo it. He will get tired of it and that will be that. You have a busy life(and if you don’t, like me, then fake it!) and he is a privileged man who is a part of it!